Mapping your erotic landscape

Imagine that your sexuality feels alive, authentic and deeply yours.

Picture it as an inviting, inspiring sanctuary where you connect with your life force and creativity.

A place that every time you think about visiting, you know you’ll feel more connected to yourself and to your partner. Think of it as a garden that awakens a sense of awe and anticipation every time you approach.

The garden we inherited

Many times we discover that the garden we’ve inherited isn’t actually the one we want to tend. We realize that some of the rules about what should grow there, or what is considered a weed, came from voices that never truly understood our unique soil and climate. This recognition can be both liberating and disorienting.

For those of us who work with others – therapists, coaches, educators, healers – these discoveries can feel especially complex. We might notice how our own inherited patterns around sexuality and boundaries show up in our professional relationships.

To be able to design our own landscape we need to have a clear understanding of what truly belongs to us and what has been planted by others.

This guide will help you with unfolding the truths about how much your sexuality is shaped by others and how much of it is fully personal. And this could be a starting point for you to reclaim what is truly yours.